If you anticipate these you are less likely to become frustrated and quit. Again have a plan on how you will deal with such things. Know your saboteurs your setbacks your obstacles your forks in the road and align yourself with the tools to overcome these. Success is not a straight line it’s a series of twists and turns and hills. Make a daily routine of positive self talk and embracing your faults. It chews away at the edges of our confidence and resilience. Psychologically speaking self criticism weakens our resolve. One must lay out a plan not just a looming goal. Daily/weekly goals that push you towards your largest goal. That is why daily and weekly goals are so important. Oh it’s not that I don’t believe all you may be capable of achieving yet you set yourself up to fail by biting off more than you can chew. Below I suggest a few ways to be more successful this year and beyond.Īre your goals achievable? I cannot tell you how many time a potential client comes in with their new goals and they are completely unrealistic. You and only you are responsible for success or failure. It’s a little lie we tell ourselves to justify our failure our quitting another attempt in the new year. If you know me and my thoughts on “willpower” you know I think it’s one of the biggest excuses we use. Maybe the “whys” lie in the way we have set ourselves up to fail in lack of planning appropriately and in mindset. Why? What happens? Are we lacking “willpower” or just undisciplined? Perhaps the answers are not that “superficial”. January we find ourselves full of energy ready to tackle our new habits new goals for the new year.Īs the month comes to a close many will let those habits fall by the wayside and give up on those goals. The only way you find your true path is from within Once you start it gets easier to hear and that my friend makes it easier in turn to listen Set aside a small time and space daily for just hearing your own voice The only way to find pure joy and happiness is listening Not what others expect you to need not what society tells you you should strive for not the advice (though well meaning) of those around you That inner voice tells you what YOU really need Keeping things and people in our lives that keep us constantly distracted Is also a way of not paying attentionĪll of these can prevent us from hearing our inner voice One of the ways we keep ourselves distracted is busyness “One of the reasons we keep our lives so complicated is so we won't have to listen to our inner voice telling us what we need to do to make our lives work better." Do you feel like something “needs to change” in your life?
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